Your posts are confusing. Are you the husband (applicant) or the wife (sponsor). I saw a post that mentioned about a husband and now you are talking about a wife.
According to your earlier posts, you two have a large age gap, married on the first meeting/trip and haven't spent much time in-person. You are also a refugee. So your case has a lot of red flags. I am not sure what you can expect on the DM. (decision)