I absolutely agree, one can become really obsessed and impatient seeing other applications progress. And unless it's an emergency, one should really take a step back and let the process run its course.
OP, here are my details:
Applied for C: Jan 31, 2018
App type: Single
Received: Feb 7, 2018
AOR: Mar 4, 2018
Process started: Apr 27, 2018
FR request: Aug 17, 2018
FR sent: Sept 6, 2018
Status: In Process
Totally agree. There is no point in obsessing about individual timelines. My application is also one of the slow ones, but in the end, if you are a PR and live in Canada, some extra months as a PR instead of a Citizen won't make that big of a difference. An exception, as you say, would be urgent cases where citizenship is directly needed for something.
While I don't obsess over my individual timeline, I'm kind of meta-annoyed
What I mean is that I find it truly mind-boggling that IRCC is unable to handle this in a more timely manner. I don't doubt that the vast majority of people in the IRCC admin are doing a good job and trying their best, time-wise. I think that they are just terribly understaffed, particularly in large cities.
So I'm not particularly annoyed about my application being a slower one. I'm more annoyed about the baseline/average. So in some way, if I were the only slow one, whatever. But so many slow ones, seriously?