My husband is working full time in India. For him this wait may not be not that difficult as it is for me. He has family and friends there. M living alone here. Everyday when you go back home and see no one around that is the actual pain of waiting. At least spouses in India have families around them. I know how much he worries about me and want to come asap but at the same time he is the one who gives me strength and doesn't let me feel lonely. In this wait game both the partners are suffering in some way.