Oh. so its not necessary that online application goes to the country of application? I didn't know that.Yours is an online application. So it's a guessing-game as to which visa office in the world is processing your application. Your wife was lucky (maybe her app was processed by a visa office dealing with fewer applications).
Hopefully you will get a reply to your emails in 1-2 days (the ones you wrote to NDVO and Bangalore). They might even let you know where your application is being processed. And, from what I've seen, things start to speed up after getting these replies
Yea , hope I get a reply for the emails before this weekend. Anyway, will keep posted of the developments..
Thanks