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Ponga

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Thank you so much for your response. It has given me some thoughts to ponder on, and it sure adds value, so don't worry at all. I appreciate your thoughts.

Because I am a citizen of the south asian country that we both originate from, of course I could go and visit him there in my home country of citizenship, as I carry that passport. But we could never marry, or live together in that country, so visiting doesn't serve any purpose.

You are correct - I didn't disclose the conjugal relationship when I landed as I didn't know I had to do that. I mean I thought I have to disclose only if I legally marry. Moreover, my partner was not part of my PR application as I got my PR through FSW category, and he didn't accompany me to Canada. This was a romantic relationship, and we never have lived together because it is unsafe to live together in our home country. So I never knew if had to be disclosed. So you think that would flag as misrepresentation? Thank you for your thoughts
Based on the recent post from @Armoured95, perhaps you should submit a conjugal sponsorship ASAP and hope for the best, especially if marriage is absolutely not an option.
 

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To point 1, couldn't the couple have traveled to another country to get married...then submit an Outland application once the sponsor is back in Canada? If marriage is illegal in their home country, are they not able to marry in a part of the world where it is not illegal?

3. Wasn't sure, which is why I knew that someone would offer their opinion.
The issue is most of the countries that allow same sex marriages are western countries (like Canada, UK, Australia etc. - so very few countries to choose from). and they have very strict visa requirements for us South Asians. It is not easy to get a visa for the south asians to these western countries by establishing that you will rightfully leave at the end of your visit. Even in this case, we applied for a visitor visa twice to Canada and both were refused.
 
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The issue is most of the countries that allow same sex marriages are western countries (like Canada, UK, Australia etc. - so very few countries to choose from). and they have very strict visa requirements for us South Asians. It is not easy to get a visa for the south asians to these western countries by establishing that you will rightfully leave at the end of your visit. Even in this case, we applied for a visitor visa twice to Canada and both were refused.
@Ponga and obviously we wouldn't want another visa refusal from a "big boy" country like UK or Australia to add to the list of 2 visa refusals from Canada that my boyfriend already has.

Also, given that I am also a citizen of the concerned south asian country (although I am a Canadian PR) I would also require a visa to enter this other country if we are to marry. And the likelihood of visa approval for both of us just for the purpose of marriage in a completely different country is extremely rare (given even Canada is not willing to let my partner in on a visitor visa).
 

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@Ponga and obviously we wouldn't want another visa refusal from a "big boy" country like UK or Australia to add to the list of 2 visa refusals from Canada that my boyfriend already has.

Also, given that I am also a citizen of the concerned south asian country (although I am a Canadian PR) I would also require a visa to enter this other country if we are to marry. And the likelihood of visa approval for both of us just for the purpose of marriage in a completely different country is extremely rare (given even Canada is not willing to let my partner in on a visitor visa).
Well, there are 34 countries that do recognize it. No reason to try another "big boy" country at all. ;)
 

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@Ponga and obviously we wouldn't want another visa refusal from a "big boy" country like UK or Australia to add to the list of 2 visa refusals from Canada that my boyfriend already has.

Also, given that I am also a citizen of the concerned south asian country (although I am a Canadian PR) I would also require a visa to enter this other country if we are to marry. And the likelihood of visa approval for both of us just for the purpose of marriage in a completely different country is extremely rare (given even Canada is not willing to let my partner in on a visitor visa).
Taiwan would be a good option. My husband and I got married in the US. We have been in a long distance relationship since the very beginning. And his application (I was the sponsor) has just been approved.

We are rooting for you. DM me if you need any questions.
 

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Well, there are 34 countries that do recognize it. No reason to try another "big boy" country at all. ;)
I am quoting from the below website:
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Requirement to be married before submitting the application
IRCC cannot require couples to marry in order to immigrate. However, if they are not married, they must be common-law partners. There is no provision in IRPA for fiancé(e)s or intended common-law partners."

https://www.canada.ca/en/immigration-refugees-citizenship/corporate/publications-manuals/operational-bulletins-manuals/permanent-residence/non-economic-classes/family-class-determining-spouse/legality.html#

While I am aware the US has a visa category that allows its citizens to bring down their fiance to marry in the US, Canada doesn't have such a visa category, obviously because IRCC cannot force anyone to marry just so that you could immigrate.

Marrying, or not marrying (and staying common-law) is purely a personal choice of the couple. As I understand it, marriage is a solemn/holy affair, and you get married only once, so you need to be fully prepared to do that. There is no need to rush a marriage just for the purpose of immigration.
 

djnutz26

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Taiwan would be a good option. My husband and I got married in the US. We have been in a long distance relationship since the very beginning. And his application (I was the sponsor) has just been approved.

We are rooting for you. DM me if you need any questions.
Thank you so much. One time we were considering Taiwan as well, but we were not sure of their visa requirements, and didn’t want to take a risk in applying because my partner already has 2 visitor visa rejections from Canada in his profile. And we do not want to marry in a completely remote country away from our friends and known people, just so we could apply as a married couple, when we have this conjugal partner option available.

Fantastic news! I I wish you nothing but happiness in your new life with your partner. I am sure it muct be exciting to get together after a long long distance relationship. :)
 
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I am quoting from the below website:
"
Requirement to be married before submitting the application
IRCC cannot require couples to marry in order to immigrate. However, if they are not married, they must be common-law partners. There is no provision in IRPA for fiancé(e)s or intended common-law partners."

https://www.canada.ca/en/immigration-refugees-citizenship/corporate/publications-manuals/operational-bulletins-manuals/permanent-residence/non-economic-classes/family-class-determining-spouse/legality.html#

While I am aware the US has a visa category that allows its citizens to bring down their fiance to marry in the US, Canada doesn't have such a visa category, obviously because IRCC cannot force anyone to marry just so that you could immigrate.

Marrying, or not marrying (and staying common-law) is purely a personal choice of the couple. As I understand it, marriage is a solemn/holy affair, and you get married only once, so you need to be fully prepared to do that. There is no need to rush a marriage just for the purpose of immigration.
You are correct in saying that IRCC cannot require couples to marry, but if a conjugal applicant CAN get married by traveling to a country where the marriage is legal...
You can see the paradox.

Also, don't use common-law in discussing your situation, because you are not common-law.
 

djnutz26

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You are correct in saying that IRCC cannot require couples to marry, but if a conjugal applicant CAN get married by traveling to a country where the marriage is legal...
You can see the paradox.

Also, don't use common-law in discussing your situation, because you are not common-law.
Well as a couple, if we are not ready to get married at this time, and if IRCC is not forcing us to marry for immigration purpose either, then I believe there is no paradox. Marriage is a personal choice, and there is no reason for it to be forced just for immigration..I sincerely hope so.
 

armoured

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You are correct in saying that IRCC cannot require couples to marry, but if a conjugal applicant CAN get married by traveling to a country where the marriage is legal...
You can see the paradox.
There's a related paradox, which is that some countries (many actually) have fairly significant additional requirements for marriage (not just same sex), e.g. marriage is intended for residents, and documentation requirements can be difficult.

Ultimatley this is why the conjugal sponsorship exists - it's a bit of a 'hack' in the sense of being grafted on to the spousal sponsorship program, and yes, there are some oddities in specifics of what is rquired.
 

armoured

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Well as a couple, if we are not ready to get married at this time, and if IRCC is not forcing us to marry for immigration purpose either, then I believe there is no paradox. Marriage is a personal choice, and there is no reason for it to be forced just for immigration..I sincerely hope so.
I take a different view on this, which is that 'common law' is intended (historically, legally, culturally, etc) to be a de facto type of marriage. And the name of the program, spousal sponsorship, makes that point strongly - it is intended only for spouses (which if you look up definitions, is often or usually defined as someone in a state of marriage in relation to the other).

One can argue about the legal definition of 'marriage' and whether common law is basically the same thing or not (it's not exactly the same but is a legal relationship akin to marriage in many respects, hence ... 'spouse.').

But the government absolutely can establish criteria for immigration including family sponsorship, including marriage or a marriage like relationship, and that's exactly what it does. So yes, it does require it for spousal sponsorship. Don't like it, you can absolutely not do so, and the cost of such is not qualifying for immigration.

Conjugal sponsorship, in contrast, is simply a recognition that other countries put barriers to marriage that are not considered reasonable in Canada. In other words, where a couple do not have the ability to make that personal choice, and as a result cannot sponsor their (putative) spouse.

But if someone does not face such a barrier and chooses not to get married or become common law, government can and will refuse.
 

armoured

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To point 1, couldn't the couple have traveled to another country to get married...then submit an Outland application once the sponsor is back in Canada? If marriage is illegal in their home country, are they not able to marry in a part of the world where it is not illegal?
In theory, yes, in practice, this can actually be quite difficult. Whenever it comes up here, I do suggest / recommend - if you can, get married.
 

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Hello

When choosing photos to prove the relationship is it acceptable to include a few photos of the couple kissing - either on cheeks or lips?

Or is this something that should be avoided altogether?

Many thanks for your suggestions.
One option is to apply for a refugee status based on discrimination against LGBTQ people. It depends on which part of South Asia your partner comes from for that to apply to you as it is legal in some parts like India, etc. I am aware of a couple who did that a few years ago, who were from India (but this was when homosexuality was illegal there).