Man I feel really depressed and sad.
My application has been completed on 22 of February and curently awaiting Oath (not started) just a ghost update on March 2nd.
I called the IRCC phone line 13 days ago and was answered by a very demeaning and scolding agent who said that just to check the email and I am within the processing period.
I waited 13 days and called again, and this time the same agent answered, and she goes like when was the last time you called, what was the answer then? it is the same answer now! and then went on a lecture on how my process is, the lecture was another 10 minutes.
I explained to her, that I understand, and I am just anxious and can't wait for the new phase of my life. She really brought me down, she made me feel... I do not know how to describe that, she was very vindictive.
Not all agents are like that, most are amazing, uplifting. Just my luck that in 12 days period I spoke with the same agent.
She reminded me of the country I fled from, the phone ended and I was blank for 30 minutes.
I hope these agents know how important this step for us. This agent must have known, she sounded like an immigrant, so I am sure she can connect with me, but these two times she did not.
Currently trying to uplift my mood and energy, my toddler will wake up soon and I want to be fun dad around her.