Marriage after receiving study visa, but before entering to Canada

[sihan]

No need to lecture me about Asian culture, I’ve been living it for 30+ years. By the way, cohabiting is becoming more common in certain parts of Asia so your blanket assertion that nobody in the entire continent knows about it is wrong.

Anyway, the point is it’s an option for those who need to apply for a visa but before their marriage.

Geez, I am just saying cohabitation is not common practice throughout the continent.
What are you so salty and sensitive for?

Are there exceptions to the rule? Hell sure yes, but that doesn't mean the general rule doesn't apply.

 

[sihan]

Well, you are complicating it. As long as you can prove with evidence, it doesn't matter what is culture unacceptable. Even married couples have to show pictures of their wedding apart from marriage registration documents. If you provide them with the evidence required to prove common law partner then there is no issue.

That I do agree with you. Except that it is just a BIG hassle to have to "prove" your relationship, when you can just be done with it and shut those guys up if you are actually married and have a legit marriage certificate.

 

[aspirant256]

That I do agree with you. Except that it is just a BIG hassle to have to "prove" your relationship, when you can just be done with it and shut those guys up if you are actually married and have a legit marriage certificate.

You can move your argument from common law to married, but not the other way around. What I mean is, if the common law doesn't work then you can always get married and present evidence of marriage, but not the other way around. Whatever works for you.

 

[sihan]

You can move your argument from common law to married, but not the other way around. What I mean is, if the common law doesn't work then you can always get married and present evidence of marriage, but not the other way around. Whatever works for you.

I am actually very open minded. As a matter of fact, I very much welcome that option. No man will ever say no to freedom like that.

But matter of fact about life is that, in a marriage, it aint just about YOU.
You gotta deal with parents and in laws, who are traditional, who are stuck up, and obstinate, who will insist in doing things in a certain way.

I think you get what I mean.

 

[wakongah]

We’re just giving an option that those in the situation described in this thread may want to consider if it works for them. If it doesn’t, then fine get married, do whatever is easier in your situation. You’re the one who wants to turn it into an argument by condescendingly lecturing us on Asian culture and filial piety.

 

[sihan]

We’re just giving an option that those in the situation described in this thread may want to consider if it works for them. If it doesn’t, then fine get married, do whatever is easier in your situation. You’re the one who wants to turn it into an argument by condescendingly lecturing us on Asian culture and filial piety.

Just WTF is your problem? What is so darn wrong about talking about culture issues and constraints?
How am I making any arguments here? Are you fking outta your mind?

Oh please, rather than simply waving the convenient finger at me, how about you just man up and freaking admit that you are a hypersensitive, contentious, belligerent, cranky prick for that matter?

You claim you lived in Asia for more than 30 years? For real?
You are that old and you can't fugging behave like an proper mature adult should !!

If you are that easily offended, then you can jolly well STFU and screw off somewhere else, you aint doing nobody any favors by crying and yelping like some petulant child !!

 

[wakongah]

u mad?

 

[sihan]

u mad?

No thats you, old crone.
You choosing to get pissed for no reason, you better get yourself checked up for menopause or whatever.