Newbie here at the forum. Need help, tips and advice on how to go about..I met my boyfriend online last year. He calls me regularly and vice versa. We email a lot too ( just like what most LD relationships). He runs a business in yk and doing well and Im working in a BPO company in Manila. Here's the thing, he cant get here in Manila because he cant acquire a passport due to legal matters not in the next 2 years. He is not a criminal nor in jail (sorry but cant get into details..). I however traveled before ever since i was a toddler (France,India,Thailand,Hong kong and lived in Zambia Africa for 2 yrs but this was so long time ago) and my recent travels was in Singapore, been there twice and stayed for a month every time. We both wanted to see each other and spend time together and the plan is to visit him there instead.
My dilemma, based from the comments from the forums ive read, it seems too hard next to impossible to get a visit visa nowadays Questions are: Can he still make (him allowed?) a letter of invitation for me stating that he will support and or sponsor during my stay? (granting the situation he has?) Also, im not rich, i dont own any property but i have a stable job. How can i deal with this matter and what option do i have left??? Its getting so frustrating for the both of us and all we wanted is to spend time. We have no plans of getting married since all we wanted is to be physically together first. I know how extreme the weather can get there too and i think im not so ready to be staying there for long. In our culture, its very important for the family to see and get to know the man first before allowing one of their siblings to settle down. Im definitely be coming back since my purpose is just to visit not sure if i would want to have a life there. Please help and thank you in advance.
My dilemma, based from the comments from the forums ive read, it seems too hard next to impossible to get a visit visa nowadays Questions are: Can he still make (him allowed?) a letter of invitation for me stating that he will support and or sponsor during my stay? (granting the situation he has?) Also, im not rich, i dont own any property but i have a stable job. How can i deal with this matter and what option do i have left??? Its getting so frustrating for the both of us and all we wanted is to spend time. We have no plans of getting married since all we wanted is to be physically together first. I know how extreme the weather can get there too and i think im not so ready to be staying there for long. In our culture, its very important for the family to see and get to know the man first before allowing one of their siblings to settle down. Im definitely be coming back since my purpose is just to visit not sure if i would want to have a life there. Please help and thank you in advance.