Hey Everyone,
I’ve been checking out the forum for a few days now, and first let me say that this is such a nice community you all have created. Helpful, friendly, and really encouraging. With that in mind, I’d like to pick all your brains about a few things that have remained – even with all the threads I’ve read! – a bit confusing as my wife and I ready our spouse-inland PR application and my open work permit application.
First, I should give a brief background into our straightforward yet slightly complex situation. If there are gaps or unclear parts, it’s because I’m trying to be brief – my apologies. Anyway, I’m an American citizen who randomly visited Canada and met the perfect Canadian woman, and after many hours of chatting (text, phone, videocall), visits, and long stays (months, all legal of course) decided to wed in the U.S. What kept us apart before and after our marriage was the fact that I was a graduate student in the U.S., while she was working, in school (post-grad), and raising her child in Canada. Our first year of marriage was thus spent apart, though again, we visited each other as often as possible, usually about every 3 months. Then I got a bit lucky in my final year of graduate studies, as I was able to work and complete my degree remotely. In that final year I lived with my wife in Canada, though I hopped in and out as necessary (everything work-related was U.S.-based since it was through the university and completed online). After I finished my degree and celebrated two years of marriage, we still weren’t sure on what side of the border we’d settle in. Among other things, she now had to finish a great graduate degree she had started just as I was completing mine, so… We opted to remain in Canada for the foreseeable future. And here we are...
With this short history in mind, I wondered if any of you could provide any insight as to the right balance of evidence to provide to prove we are, in fact, in a real marriage. Ha! Obviously, we’ll provide some of what the application asks for (i.e. marriage certificate), and try to make up for the fact that most finances aren’t combined and don’t appear under the same address, primarily due to the fact that I was still just a visitor in Canada and tied to my American school. Luckily, we signed a lease to an apartment in the spring, and we do have evidence of me shuffling money to my wife (ex. she could deposit my American checks into her bank account) every month. Beyond that, we have the photos, texts, emails/letters, social media. Friends and family have written letters attesting to our marriage.
Before I forget, I do have a specific question regarding the police certificate and medical. So I did an FBI report in May (I thought it was going to take forever, but it didn’t), but then went back to the U.S. over the summer for about two weeks. Since I left Canada, do I have to do another one? Also, when do I do this RCMP and medical business? I’ve seen some posts about upfront submissions, but this info has only served to get me twisted after I had thought I had figured it out.
Apologies for the long post and questions. It’s all so… confusing and overwhelming. I just don’t want to mess up and have the SWOP and PR applications returned or, worse yet, rejected. I want to live with my family! I welcome any and all advice/feedback.
Looking forward to positively contributing as best I can around here. Cheers.
I’ve been checking out the forum for a few days now, and first let me say that this is such a nice community you all have created. Helpful, friendly, and really encouraging. With that in mind, I’d like to pick all your brains about a few things that have remained – even with all the threads I’ve read! – a bit confusing as my wife and I ready our spouse-inland PR application and my open work permit application.
First, I should give a brief background into our straightforward yet slightly complex situation. If there are gaps or unclear parts, it’s because I’m trying to be brief – my apologies. Anyway, I’m an American citizen who randomly visited Canada and met the perfect Canadian woman, and after many hours of chatting (text, phone, videocall), visits, and long stays (months, all legal of course) decided to wed in the U.S. What kept us apart before and after our marriage was the fact that I was a graduate student in the U.S., while she was working, in school (post-grad), and raising her child in Canada. Our first year of marriage was thus spent apart, though again, we visited each other as often as possible, usually about every 3 months. Then I got a bit lucky in my final year of graduate studies, as I was able to work and complete my degree remotely. In that final year I lived with my wife in Canada, though I hopped in and out as necessary (everything work-related was U.S.-based since it was through the university and completed online). After I finished my degree and celebrated two years of marriage, we still weren’t sure on what side of the border we’d settle in. Among other things, she now had to finish a great graduate degree she had started just as I was completing mine, so… We opted to remain in Canada for the foreseeable future. And here we are...
With this short history in mind, I wondered if any of you could provide any insight as to the right balance of evidence to provide to prove we are, in fact, in a real marriage. Ha! Obviously, we’ll provide some of what the application asks for (i.e. marriage certificate), and try to make up for the fact that most finances aren’t combined and don’t appear under the same address, primarily due to the fact that I was still just a visitor in Canada and tied to my American school. Luckily, we signed a lease to an apartment in the spring, and we do have evidence of me shuffling money to my wife (ex. she could deposit my American checks into her bank account) every month. Beyond that, we have the photos, texts, emails/letters, social media. Friends and family have written letters attesting to our marriage.
Before I forget, I do have a specific question regarding the police certificate and medical. So I did an FBI report in May (I thought it was going to take forever, but it didn’t), but then went back to the U.S. over the summer for about two weeks. Since I left Canada, do I have to do another one? Also, when do I do this RCMP and medical business? I’ve seen some posts about upfront submissions, but this info has only served to get me twisted after I had thought I had figured it out.
Apologies for the long post and questions. It’s all so… confusing and overwhelming. I just don’t want to mess up and have the SWOP and PR applications returned or, worse yet, rejected. I want to live with my family! I welcome any and all advice/feedback.
Looking forward to positively contributing as best I can around here. Cheers.