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smileyou1234

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I am very frustarted these days becasue my fiance keep saying all paperworks we done for sopnsership is for my personal benefits, we are getting married soon in 1 weeks, but I don't feel happy at all :(

He is a Canadian and I am a foreigner, we have been dating over a year, getting married is a way that we both
are able to stay togther, he is the one wants to get married, all of the suddden changed his attitude, and told me I will plan to get divorced with him after I get my citzenship. I don't feel good at all! I really want to call off the wedding, but I already invite family and firends, what should I do? any suggestion?
 

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If you don't want to get married, DON'T GET MARRIED!

It's YOUR life! If it's already bad and you're wanting to call it off, it will only get worse.

Don't sacrifice your happiness to "appease" your family and friends. They would want you to be HAPPY. Explain to them the situation, and they will be more than supportive. Do what's right. If you go thru with marrying someone you don't want to, you are only postponing the inevitable.

Call it now, or go through an even messier divorce later.
 

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hey, I am really sorry to know that.
I strongly insist you to clear things with your would be husband, and please don't even think about family and friends, it is the most important decision of your life, family/friends will discuss this for few minutes/days and forget it, you are the one who has to spend life with your partner. If he is changing attitude, be bold and ask him if he has doubt or second thoughts we can postpone/cancel the marriage but do not compromise at all, this is not about a room mate, tenant stuff that you can compromise, its about your life partner, your whole life, your happiness and your direction of life. Its not where you spend your life, its actually how you spend your life. & nobody becomes a prince/princess by getting a Canadian pr, you have to work extra hard to survive/establish in Canada.
Value your life and act wisely.

God bless you.

smileyou1234 said:
I am very frustarted these days becasue my fiance keep saying all paperworks we done for sopnsership is for my personal benefits, we are getting married soon in 1 weeks, but I don't feel happy at all :(

He is a Canadian and I am a foreigner, we have been dating over a year, getting married is a way that we both
are able to stay togther, he is the one wants to get married, all of the suddden changed his attitude, and told me I will plan to get divorced with him after I get my citzenship. I don't feel good at all! I really want to call off the wedding, but I already invite family and firends, what should I do? any suggestion?