Thank you 123ami...no I don't mind at all! I'm happy to help out because I know how stressful it can be:
A little info about my application that may help you and others:
I am the applicant (female) and sponsored my husband from Sri Lanka. I only had a civil wedding.
Application sent: October 11, 2012
Sponsor approved: October 31, 2012
I emailed the office several times and got the same response back, which was that the file is in que to be reviewed by an officer. We did not receive any requests from the visa office until August 06, 2013, which was a request for my husband to re-do his medicals. We then never heard anything from the office. My status online was not updated, it showed that application has been received and medicals have been received (this was the status since I got approved as a sponsor.) We then got an email from the office on Oct 14, 2013 requesting to submit the passport. The status online changed to decision made on the same day. We received the processed visa on October 16, 2013.
Hope this helps