Please help.

[ReMack]

Hello everyone.here is my story I hope someone can give me some advice. I got married in 2011 in Canada with a Canadian girl. I'am Hungarian . We were living together. She was working in a massage parlour in Niagara Falls and she was telling me she doesn't do any more than massage. After a while she started to go out more frequently and she was drinking a lot. I didnt believe her anymore about her jobso I sent my buddy who she doesn't know to see what's happening there. And she asked him if he wants a blowjob or sex during the massage. After that I was fighting with her every single day. And I was telling her to leave the "job". I went out clubbing alone a few times and I met with a girl. We started to talk and she seemed really nice. She is a psw and she has a really good job. She has a 7 year old son. We started to hang out my wife didn't care about me. I slept with her and I got her pregnant. She wanted to keep the baby but I was scared to claim the baby so I didn't claimed him. We lived together with this girl and my son for a year. But I made a mistake cause I didn't withdraw my pr application and I went for an interview in Vienna where I got denied because of her workplace. Now I don't want to appeal just withdraw my application. I'am in Hungary right now and my son and the girl who I love in canada. But immigration doesn't know I have them. I want them sooooo bad what should I do??? Please help me!

 

[scylla]

Your story is very confusing.

If your wife was the person who sponsored you then you committed application fraud by continuing with this application when you were no longer in a relationship with her and were in fact common law with someone else. I think you were denied because the officer clearly saw your relationship was no longer ongoing. There is no point in appealing. You have no grounds for appeal based on the fact that your relationship with your wife has fallen apart. It was a very bad decision on your part to continue with this application.

I think it's time to consult with a very good immigration lawyer. It's going to be extremely difficult for your girlfriend to sponsor you because of what you have done and the choices you have made. It will be difficult to prove you were/are common law and CIC will find this second relationship suspicous because of your first sponsorship application. To be frank, you look like someone who is just trying to get to Canada by any means possible.

Again, you need to consult with a good lawyer. Realistically, it may be a few years before your girlfriend will be able to sponsor you and prove your relationship is genuine. It was a very very very bad idea not to withdraw your wife's sponsorship application earlier. You've likely screwed up your life for the next few years because of this poor decision.