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jdwhite21

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When we got married I did not take my husband's last name because I really would like to carry on my family name. My Grandpa was very important to me and I would like to see his legacy continued. Will immigration question the fact that I did not take my husband's name? Should I include an explanation as to why I didn't take the last name in my application? Or is it really not a big deal?

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Not a big deal at all. It won't even come up. I kept my family name.
 

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Not an issue, many women don't take their husband's last name. For some this is permanent, many just wait until after moving to Canada to change it. It's a common thing, it shouldn't give you any problems.
 

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Not an issue at all. For instance, in the province of Quebec, the law doesn't even let you take your husband's name anyway!!
 
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Really??? Thats crazy... But sweet thanks everybody, I just want to try and cover all my bases... I really want this application approved and I don't want to do anything wrong.
 

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kathsimbev said:
Not an issue at all. For instance, in the province of Quebec, the law doesn't even let you take your husband's name anyway!!
No way!! Really??? But aren't you legally entitled to change your name?
 

mitamata

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kathsimbev said:
Not an issue at all. For instance, in the province of Quebec, the law doesn't even let you take your husband's name anyway!!
Are you serious? LOL! Man, I have been hearing some interesting things about Quebec recently. Why do people want to move there anyway?
 

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"If in the rest of Canada, women are given the choice of officially using their married name, Quebec is anchored in a phony law that denies freedom of choice in the name of “women’s freedom”. The origins of the law go back to the creation of the Quebec Charter of Rights, which clearly defined equality between men and women. And this equality was proclaimed by forcing women to stay “maidens”. It is interesting how a woman is forbidden from taking her husband’s surname after marriage, but a pardoned criminal has the right to change his/her name, in order to “protect” himself/herself. This outdated law must be abolished, since the “historical “reasons which determined its creation do not exist anymore. Women’s equality in our society doesn’t have to be proved anymore. It is a gained fight. The war is over. Not changing surnames is frequent for celebrities, but even so, many simply choose to add their married name next to their maiden one. The latest famous example is actress Demi Moore who has decided to change her surname and take her husband’s name: Kutcher. If keeping your maiden name is perfectly acceptable for Chinese, Korean, Iranian or Arab women, which are cultures where women usually do not change their name after marriage, as a European, I request to be given the choice of choosing my name and the right to use my married name in all official documents. Many Arab and Indonesian societies commonly do not have family names in the English sense of the term. French women do not legally change names when they marry. However, it is customary that they take their husband’s name as a “usage name”. This is not a legal obligation and not all women decide to do so. In Hungary both the bride and the bridegroom have to declare before the wedding which name they will use, a family sharing a common surname. In Brazil, until the recent reform of the Civil Law, women had to take their husbands’ surnames; not doing so was seen as evidence of concubinage. Also in Dutch tradition, marriage requires the female to drop her maiden name and take on the husband’s name. The current Dutch law gives people more freedom: upon marriage, both partners keep their own surname, but are given the choice to use their partner’s surname, or a combination of both. In Germany the name law is ruled by sexual equality since 1994: the woman can adopt her husband’s name or the man may adopt his wife’s surname. In Japan, marriage law requires that legally married couples share a surname. In Romania, when you marry, your name is automatically changed to that of your husband and all your documents are emitted with your acquired married name. But, a woman has the choice to request to keep her maiden name after marriage. As a social convention, in many cultures married women are called “Mrs. X” (their husband’s name) and unmarried women, or divorced (sometimes even after divorce some women choose to keep their “married”� name) are automatically called “Miss”, no matter their age. It is a change of status and a change of emotional character. It is a new position in the community and everybody knows that you are married because you have your husband’s name. Taking a married name might serve as daily and public markers of the marital union and the rights afforded thereto. Let’s not forget the emotional factor. Name change is a basic legal act that is recognized in practically all legal systems to allow an individual the opportunity to adopt a name other than the name given at birth, marriage, or adoption. In Quebec, any immigrant wishing to change his/her name is given this right. But married women are denied a fundamental freedom, that of choosing their surnames.This rule applies to all women domiciled in Quebec, even if they married outside Quebec or outside Canada, except women married before April 2, 1981 already using their husband’s last name to exercise their civil rights. (Source: Justice.gouv.qc.ca)"
 

Liuzhou

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The only thing Quebec has going for it (in Montreal anyway) is a lower than national average cost for housing, and cheap electricity. The summer life is great too with world renowned festivals.

A home that costs about $200,000 in the Montreal area would cost over $600,000 in the Greater Toronto area.

That being said, when you factor in Quebec having the highest personal income tax and sales tax, plus all the other taxes and fees of living here...you are probably better off elsewhere. Especially since Montreal has been a dying city since the Seperatist Government was first elected and held a referendum in 1980 to seperate from Canada.

Even the head office of The Bank of Montreal left for Toronto !! The Bank of Montreal in Toronto !! Oye.

However, I would not want to discourage anyone from moving here...so if you are planning to move here don't let my words worry you. Montreal has a great flavor that makes people want to stay...and there are many social programs here that are not found elsewhere in the country. You can get work here, without speaking French, but the higher up the ladder you go, it will be required in most cases. Most management positions require you speak English and at least half decent French, or vice versa.

It is possible to have a happy and successful life here. Every city and province has it's problems and challenges.

As far as the name thing...you can change your name to your spouses, but it has a hefty price tag (about $2000). Unofficial documents like credit cards can have your spouses name, but for your health insurance card and drivers license, you will have to use your maiden name, unless you have it legally changed. Most women can't be bothered....

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I just think its ridiculus that a woman doesn't have a choice and then if she does want to change it to her husband's name she has to pay a hefty price tag for it lol I prefer the ROC IMO .. quebec is nice to visit but I will stay clear of ever living there lol just MHO :)
 

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mitamata said:
kathsimbev said:
Not an issue at all. For instance, in the province of Quebec, the law doesn't even let you take your husband's name anyway!!
Are you serious? LOL! Man, I have been hearing some interesting things about Quebec recently. Why do people want to move there anyway?
Oi guys!!!! I was born and lived in Quebec nearly all my life!! It is a beautiful place to live and unfortunately people just see Montreal which is such a small place in comparision to the rest of the province! I would not live anywhere else in Canada! :) Your right about taxes being high but you get so much benefit! Childcare only 7.50$/day for all children, brilliant national health service, free medicine, tax rebate for families, etc. You will not get that anywhere else in Canada!!!

As for the name change...it is just something that you grow up knowing and most people are not really bothered about...You are born with a name and keep it all your life, that is it. I think it came into law because of confusion with women being known under two different names, so counted as two different people...
 

Liuzhou

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kathsimbev,

You are right. Montreal is a small place, but it is the economic hub of the Province and generates most of the tax dollars for the Quebec Government to waste on referendums and other seperatist propoganda. All the other places you refer to, including the Provincial Capital, are nothing more than tourist spots.

Benefits ! Are you kidding me ? With a waiting list of over 2 years for the $7.50 per day daycare, people unable to find a family doctor with waiting lists of anywhere to 2-6 months to see a specialist, (would harldy call this "brilliant") and a meagre tax rebate for families, I don't consider that "worth it" for the amount of taxes I pay. My goodness, you almost need to register you child for daycare before you get pregnant !!

Not to forget a crumbling infrastructure (bridges falling apart, some literally falling on people and killing them), a higher than average unemployment rate (which of course always gets blamed on Ottawa), and a constant political uncertainty of seperation and high business tax that keeps most intelligent investors away.

Then there is always the "brilliant" no fault insurance (..someone gets drunk and paralyzes me for the rest of my life and I can't sue him..huh ?), a pathetic public transit system, and a mob rules mentality by the powerful, politically motivated unions that reduce Quebec businesses the ability to compete on a global market. Add to that the "if you are not French, you are not one of us and are not welcome" attitude by Quebec Seperatists, and there is not too much to be clinging to here.

The only people that benefit from the free medicine program are the elderly since they pay very little to participate in the program and get so much more back from it.

One good thing is the cost of a University Education and the reputation of our English Universities like McGill. We do enjoy the lowest cost education in the Country in our Universities which is what attracts so many foreigners to come here to study. McGill's medical program is world renowned.

Concerning the name change, all the other provinces and states were able to figure out how to handle the "confusion" with the name change...why can't Quebec ? Is this really too big a problem for the government to solve ?

The real reason for this is that since the late 1970's, Quebec has been trying to find ways to make itself different from every other province so they can sell this idea of being culturally "distinct" to the general population. They can then hide behind the ethnocentric veil of "protecting our culture", instead of showing the real motivation, which is to one day have "Country" of White, unilingually French speaking citizens. If and when that day comes, good luck trying to compete on a global market. Every other emerging economies are encouraging and investing into teaching English. Here, English is evil and if you are Francophone and want to learn, you are a traitor to your people and your "nation". How stupid is that !

Like Boncuk said, nice place to visit, but wouldn't want to live there.

(This is where you say, If you hate it so much, why don't you leave....to which I reply, that is my plan within the next 3-5 years.)

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Oh my god you must really hate it!! Get the hell out of there as quick as you can if it's that bad! I do appreciate your views but I still think Quebec is brilliant and after living for 4 years in the UK, I CANNOT WAIT to go back and would much prefer having to put my child on a 2 years waiting list for a place in daycare then paying $85/day like I do here!! Sometimes I think people are expecting too much and don't appreciate what they've got...

And with that said, I am not here to start a fight, we are all here for one reason and that is to live with people we love in Canada wherever it is!....:)
 

Liuzhou

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Agreed...not here to pick a fight.. :)

Yep..I hate it here !! 29 years is enough for me..

You are right that maybe I expect too much or don't appreciate what I've got. Although every City and Province in Canada has it's challenges, I feel that the pastures are greener outside of Quebec.

But that's just me..

My best regards...