I would not suggest applying as conjugal, but not for the reason you state ("money is our only barrier," not that I understand how this related to the conjugal partner category):
You may apply as a conjugal partner if:
•you have maintained a conjugal relationship with your sponsor for at least one year and you have been prevented from living together or marrying because of: ◦an immigration barrier
◦your marital status (for example, you are married to someone else and living in a country where divorce is not possible) or
◦your sexual orientation (for example, you are in a same-sex relationship and same-sex marriage is not permitted where you live)
•you can provide evidence there was a reason you could not live together (for example, you were refused long-term stays in each other’s country).
You should not apply as a conjugal partner if:
•You could have lived together but chose not to. This shows that you did not have the level of commitment required for a conjugal relationship. (For example, one of you may not have wanted to give up a job or a course of study, or your relationship was not yet at the point where you were ready to live together.)
•You cannot provide evidence there was a reason that kept you from living together.•You are engaged to be married. In this case, you should either apply as a spouse once the marriage has taken place or apply as a common-law partner if you have lived together continuously for at least 12 months.
Basically, CIC is preferential toward marriage, and they'll consider you a member of the Family Class if you live together with your sponsor for a consecutive year unmarried, but if you're in a long distance relationship, they really expect you to have an outstanding reason to be able to use that category to prove you are a member of the Family Class....or else just get married. And as the paragraph above shows, that reason really has to be something beyond your control.....often times, it's not just something preventing you from living together, but from marrying too (coming from two different cultures and facing a taboo about being together, for example). Obviously, as an American, that's not going to be a typical circumstance you face.
Why are you hesitant to go the marriage route to sponsor him? Do you see yourself marrying him in the future anyway?
By the way, how do you know he doesn't qualify for the FSW stream?
kandc said:
My boyfriend and I have been long distance for 3 years. We've visited several times but always just for a weekend. He's American, I'm Canadian.
He can't afford to stop working and move here for a year. No common-law.
Money is our only barrier. No conjugal partner.
He doesn't qualify as a skilled worker. No work visa.
He can't afford to pay for university. No student visa.
What do we do? Is getting married and applying as a spouse our only option? We've spent less than a month total together in person... is this crazy?
In person....about 6 days
kandc said:
How long did you spend with your spouse in person before getting married?