- Apr 22, 2015
- 10
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- NDVO
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- 15 Jan
- Doc's Request.
- NA
- AOR Received.
- 25 Feb
- File Transfer...
- 21 Mar
- Med's Request
- 4 Nov 16 (Remedical)
- Med's Done....
- 16 Nov 16 (re-medical)
- Passport Req..
- 22 Dec 16
- VISA ISSUED...
- 06 Jan 17
- LANDED..........
- 13 Jan 17
We gave everything... my husband already has PR in process, but since I am 40 (41 in Sept) and being in the Canadian Navy I can't take any more time off than enough to go once a year to India. Its not like a civilian job where I can just pack up on a leave of absence and go to India and stay until her gets his PR. We wanted him to come here prior to PR being granted because of my age. I am 40 and that doesn't give much chance for trying to conceive. I go back to India in July for a month but we will only that one cycle to try. Thats not good odds... like less than 5% chance. I was hoping he could come here prior so we could at least try several cycles in a row. We didnt use that as the purpose though. I am expecting surgery soon on my wrist after which I will be in a cast and need help around the apartment and I live alone. We wanted him to come here to help me. As the surgery date is on cancellation list it can happen any time, so we can't wait until PR (but I guess we have no choice).
I provided:
Invitation letter explaining my upcoming surgery
Official medical documents from my military medical file explaining surgery is imminent (these were Protected B so I took a risk sending them)
Proof of my Pay in military (I make roughly 80K CDN per year)
Proof of residence (Telus bills etc)
Lette from my Mother detailing why she has not met her son in law yet (she can not travel due to her health) and proof of her medical condition and secondary reason to come was so he could finally meet his Mother in Law.
He Provided:
Pay Slips from work (including Government Position with NHPC Hydro Project)
He is CEO of a prominent NGO in Kashmir (not just volunteer with this NGO but he is the CEO!!!)
He provided letter from national level from Youth Hostel Assoc India (Kashmir) as he is Director Youth Adventure / Sports the letter details that he is required there in July - Aug for several events.
He provided Letter from NHPC as well in original (National Level)
He provided bank statement showing over 10,000 CDN
He provided assets proof including home in Srinagar
He even included proof of his character like international awards etc
And he included proof of international travel before (Thailand and Pakistan - Pakistan was for a humanitarian/peace thing where he did a presentation on behalf of India)
We detailed in both my invitation letter and his cover letter that my military job and his PR we would never want to jeopardize either (any wrongdoing could affect my security clearance and we would not want to jeopardize the PR already in process). I explained I have served my country for 19 years and being in military I only have certain amount of leave available per year and can only go to India once. I can't just take more, even unpaid. I explained that and hoped since the military attache works in the same building in New Delhi, they would understand. I even stated in the invitation letter that I understand most India applications for TRV are rejected, however please consider the human aspect of this. We are being completely honest about our future intentions for him to come to Canada eventually on PR (actually we plan to go back and forth to spend time with both families) but that in the mean time, I really need my husband as not only the upcoming surgery will make things difficult for me living alone, but the stress caused by the fact that there may be career implications if the problem can not be fixed. I really need my husband with me.
None of that mattered. Our TRV application was like 250 pages long. It was rejected. I don't understand these people.
But the biggest devestation is that unknowingly CIC have likely doomed us to never having a child. I go back there in July for the whole month and thats one and only one chance to conceive. I turn 41 in September and then it just goes downhill from there as to chances. And God only knows how long PR will take. We sent application file in January, they accepted my sponsor part end of Feb. His application has shown 'in process' now since March 25th. The only things listed there so far under his application for PR say: Received on Date Jan 15th, Medical Results have been received, and Initiated Processing 25 March. Nothing has been updated since then.
I am devestated, we really want a child, but its impossible to conceive when I am in Canada and he is there and I only have 1 month to use fr leave and that is using ALL of my leave for the entire year. Meaning I have no time off at all rest of the year. SInce he can't come here at all until we get PR which according to the CIC site is 17 months, that means next Summer sometime. I will be close to 42 then. So we have one cycle to try until I am nearly 42 years old. I don't think a child is in our future at all. At least without egg donation... and I wont carry someone else's child (egg donation would be his and some other woman's but not mine). It really makes me mad because I have likely about a year to a year and a half left to conceive with my own eggs. But I cant do anything about it. Its so frustrating. And these CIC people have no idea how they have affected us for the rest of our lives because they want to be suspicious of all Indians.
Their reasons on the rejection letter were:
- Family ties in Canada and resident country
- Not convinced he has enough funds available... (how much do they want? He has over 10K CDN in his account... I can live in Canada for 6 months on that! Why do they want so much)
- Lack of Assets (He showed the house, and car. Even the house he paid someone to do a full assessment!!! Its in the MIDDLE of Srinagar Kashmir! Expensive area!)
This leads me to believe they will only allow millionaires. Or influential people.
My next step is somehow contact the military attache who works in the same building as CIC in Delhi. And see if somehow they can expedite the PR process. Short of that I will see if its possible to freeze some of my eggs for later IVF.
But I cant even express how devastated I am right now.
I provided:
Invitation letter explaining my upcoming surgery
Official medical documents from my military medical file explaining surgery is imminent (these were Protected B so I took a risk sending them)
Proof of my Pay in military (I make roughly 80K CDN per year)
Proof of residence (Telus bills etc)
Lette from my Mother detailing why she has not met her son in law yet (she can not travel due to her health) and proof of her medical condition and secondary reason to come was so he could finally meet his Mother in Law.
He Provided:
Pay Slips from work (including Government Position with NHPC Hydro Project)
He is CEO of a prominent NGO in Kashmir (not just volunteer with this NGO but he is the CEO!!!)
He provided letter from national level from Youth Hostel Assoc India (Kashmir) as he is Director Youth Adventure / Sports the letter details that he is required there in July - Aug for several events.
He provided Letter from NHPC as well in original (National Level)
He provided bank statement showing over 10,000 CDN
He provided assets proof including home in Srinagar
He even included proof of his character like international awards etc
And he included proof of international travel before (Thailand and Pakistan - Pakistan was for a humanitarian/peace thing where he did a presentation on behalf of India)
We detailed in both my invitation letter and his cover letter that my military job and his PR we would never want to jeopardize either (any wrongdoing could affect my security clearance and we would not want to jeopardize the PR already in process). I explained I have served my country for 19 years and being in military I only have certain amount of leave available per year and can only go to India once. I can't just take more, even unpaid. I explained that and hoped since the military attache works in the same building in New Delhi, they would understand. I even stated in the invitation letter that I understand most India applications for TRV are rejected, however please consider the human aspect of this. We are being completely honest about our future intentions for him to come to Canada eventually on PR (actually we plan to go back and forth to spend time with both families) but that in the mean time, I really need my husband as not only the upcoming surgery will make things difficult for me living alone, but the stress caused by the fact that there may be career implications if the problem can not be fixed. I really need my husband with me.
None of that mattered. Our TRV application was like 250 pages long. It was rejected. I don't understand these people.
But the biggest devestation is that unknowingly CIC have likely doomed us to never having a child. I go back there in July for the whole month and thats one and only one chance to conceive. I turn 41 in September and then it just goes downhill from there as to chances. And God only knows how long PR will take. We sent application file in January, they accepted my sponsor part end of Feb. His application has shown 'in process' now since March 25th. The only things listed there so far under his application for PR say: Received on Date Jan 15th, Medical Results have been received, and Initiated Processing 25 March. Nothing has been updated since then.
I am devestated, we really want a child, but its impossible to conceive when I am in Canada and he is there and I only have 1 month to use fr leave and that is using ALL of my leave for the entire year. Meaning I have no time off at all rest of the year. SInce he can't come here at all until we get PR which according to the CIC site is 17 months, that means next Summer sometime. I will be close to 42 then. So we have one cycle to try until I am nearly 42 years old. I don't think a child is in our future at all. At least without egg donation... and I wont carry someone else's child (egg donation would be his and some other woman's but not mine). It really makes me mad because I have likely about a year to a year and a half left to conceive with my own eggs. But I cant do anything about it. Its so frustrating. And these CIC people have no idea how they have affected us for the rest of our lives because they want to be suspicious of all Indians.
Their reasons on the rejection letter were:
- Family ties in Canada and resident country
- Not convinced he has enough funds available... (how much do they want? He has over 10K CDN in his account... I can live in Canada for 6 months on that! Why do they want so much)
- Lack of Assets (He showed the house, and car. Even the house he paid someone to do a full assessment!!! Its in the MIDDLE of Srinagar Kashmir! Expensive area!)
This leads me to believe they will only allow millionaires. Or influential people.
My next step is somehow contact the military attache who works in the same building as CIC in Delhi. And see if somehow they can expedite the PR process. Short of that I will see if its possible to freeze some of my eggs for later IVF.
But I cant even express how devastated I am right now.