I just got married with my Canadian husband about 2 months ago, I am from a visa exempt country, so I am currently on my visitor visa in Canada. However, I got some problems with my husband, I hope you can give me some advice for my situation.
Me and my husband was dating about 1.5 year bfore we get married,and we both have never lived togther becasue of long-distance reltionship.After we got married, I moved in to his place, we spend 24-7 together.
However, I found out he has OCD and germphobia, he has to keep washing his hand contantly and brushing his teeth around 20 mins each time, 3 times a night when he is home. Also, he has to do 3 loads of laundary in evening, firstly is outside clothes, second is inside clothes, thirdly is towels, and he uses about 30 towels just in a night becasue everything has germ and bacteria on it, so he has to contantly wash and clean all stuff. He even pour 95% pure alcholo on his hands all the time, and he told me I have to take a shower right away even I just go downstair to check my mailbox becasue he is so worred I may carry germ back to his pace. Besides, he has to check if he turn off stove and lock the door or not all the time. He can't use the pen from the resturant becasue he said there are so many germs on it, one time I grab the pen from the resturant to pick the menu, he got so freak out, a lots exmples I can't list eveything in here.
I try to communicate with him many times, there is no need to do laundry 3 times a day, most of times he just wash 2 or 3 pieces of clothes, also, his both hands are already peeling badly becasue he washes and uses alcohol constantly.However, he doesn't listen to me at all, his OCD takes away too much of his life.
It's just 2 months we are living together, my heart is tiring already.I don't know if I can put up with his OCD for the rest of my life. Every day he has to spend a lots time on washing, cleaning and questioning me if I wash my hands or not.
He got so many his ruitals which I did not know before, when we met or travel togther, he did not show
these strange acts to me. However, after living togther, I am very streesful from his OCD symptoms. I actually suggest him to consult a doctor, and he thinks he is right, nothing wrong to be a CLEAN PERSON.
Becasue of his symptoms, I hesitate to send out our immigration application and I am not happy because of his OCD, he treats me very well except his OCD bothers me a lot. He is my sponser, I don't know what should I do now? sometimes I just want to pack and leave, but we are legal married, I can't do that. i am thinking to get divorced, but we are just married for 2 months only. what should I do now? my mind is a mess!
should I get divorced and not to send out my application?or stay in marriage and see how it go? I think things will go much more complicated after he sponser me to become a PR, any suggestion?
Me and my husband was dating about 1.5 year bfore we get married,and we both have never lived togther becasue of long-distance reltionship.After we got married, I moved in to his place, we spend 24-7 together.
However, I found out he has OCD and germphobia, he has to keep washing his hand contantly and brushing his teeth around 20 mins each time, 3 times a night when he is home. Also, he has to do 3 loads of laundary in evening, firstly is outside clothes, second is inside clothes, thirdly is towels, and he uses about 30 towels just in a night becasue everything has germ and bacteria on it, so he has to contantly wash and clean all stuff. He even pour 95% pure alcholo on his hands all the time, and he told me I have to take a shower right away even I just go downstair to check my mailbox becasue he is so worred I may carry germ back to his pace. Besides, he has to check if he turn off stove and lock the door or not all the time. He can't use the pen from the resturant becasue he said there are so many germs on it, one time I grab the pen from the resturant to pick the menu, he got so freak out, a lots exmples I can't list eveything in here.
I try to communicate with him many times, there is no need to do laundry 3 times a day, most of times he just wash 2 or 3 pieces of clothes, also, his both hands are already peeling badly becasue he washes and uses alcohol constantly.However, he doesn't listen to me at all, his OCD takes away too much of his life.
It's just 2 months we are living together, my heart is tiring already.I don't know if I can put up with his OCD for the rest of my life. Every day he has to spend a lots time on washing, cleaning and questioning me if I wash my hands or not.
He got so many his ruitals which I did not know before, when we met or travel togther, he did not show
these strange acts to me. However, after living togther, I am very streesful from his OCD symptoms. I actually suggest him to consult a doctor, and he thinks he is right, nothing wrong to be a CLEAN PERSON.
Becasue of his symptoms, I hesitate to send out our immigration application and I am not happy because of his OCD, he treats me very well except his OCD bothers me a lot. He is my sponser, I don't know what should I do now? sometimes I just want to pack and leave, but we are legal married, I can't do that. i am thinking to get divorced, but we are just married for 2 months only. what should I do now? my mind is a mess!
should I get divorced and not to send out my application?or stay in marriage and see how it go? I think things will go much more complicated after he sponser me to become a PR, any suggestion?
