Ha! Yeah, I know ALLLLLLLLL about Québec. That's a long, long conversation, haha. Personally, what I find in my admittedly rather limited experience (I just live here, like a normal person, doing what normal people do, it's not like I'm out interviewing Francophones every day) is that the people are just like people anywhere. Some really good ones, a lot of decent ones, a few jerks. The politics, however, can be pretty gross. (Google "la charte des valeurs québécoise" and read opinions on that one.)
I'm kind of lucky. I'm an American Anglophone living here, NOT a Canadian Anglophone. I don't have a lifetime of "knowing" (assuming?) negative things about the relations between Canadian Anglophones and Francophones to inform my daily interactions and decisions. I am making a very real effort to learn French (which a lot of Anglophones don't really do here - most of the Anglophones here are military or military spouses, and they know they'll eventually leave again), and most of the people I meet while I'm out and about are very sweet and complimentary of my (now intermediate) French and are helpful and encouraging. And this is in what could be called the "heart of separatist Québec."
I think the government here likes to try to whip up peoples' fears about their language and culture being threatened, which based on the history of Québec, it's not hard to see how that fear is easily revived and fed. Outrage and fear over cultural threats keep people from paying closer attention to the corruption and inefficacy of the government, which works well for those in power.
Okay, rant over, haha. Basically, people are kind to me here, and I've had next to zero issues related to rudeness over the language. I take some credit for that, as I am learning French and not expecting their world to accommodate me, but rather trying to learn to get by in their world without assistance. Also, I take a good attitude with me, and I think you get back a lot of what you put out into the world. Having said all that, it's TOUGH sometimes. Less now than earlier, when my French wasn't very good, and when my husband was gone for long periods of time (he's fluently bilingual). I feel like I have a LOT better understanding of true immigration than most Americans, as generally they don't face any language barrier or a huge change in culture when they come here.