met on-line through a matrimonial website Nov.05/08
met face to face Jan.07/09
married Jan16/09
temp. res. visa refused x 3 re: section 179.
perm. res. visa refused Jan.27/10 accused of marriage of convenience
appeal filed Mar/10
still waiting to hear back for appeal date to be set.
so... the answer would be 9 days after face to face meeting.
the girl i met was the exact same person as she described herself in our letters. the IO stated the concern that the time was so brief between meeting and marrying as one of the causes to invoke an interview along with 3rd marriage each and 11 years age difference.
that was not brought forth in the denial letter. they insisted that we did not share a language. we insited that we shared two language between us. we have found that it was easier and more fulfilling to communicate between ourselves, communication with immigration has proved protracted and difficult if not almost impossible.
we conducted our own interviews with each other. it was our love and our lives on the line that we were protecting. we committed instantly after meeting. immigration spent an hour to confirm their concerns and to develop a few more. it was not an interview, it was a lecture and an ambush.
we have past the point of interviewing each other, past the point of thinking about how we are both concerned with if our relationship is genuine and we are years now into enjoying our luck to find such compatible and perfect partners. we still have to write about it and get ready to defend ouselves against the personal bias of the IO and immigration lawyers. we have just celebrated our second anniversary together. ( that should read our second anniversary enduring this forced separation) we are delighted with our marriage and with our relationship.
i wish i could help your husband get over his feelings and his thoughts. as canadians we should feel free enough to follow or hearts in accord with the dictates of our personalities and predilections.
opps, this was supposed to post in the how long after you met face to face did you get married forum
met face to face Jan.07/09
married Jan16/09
temp. res. visa refused x 3 re: section 179.
perm. res. visa refused Jan.27/10 accused of marriage of convenience
appeal filed Mar/10
still waiting to hear back for appeal date to be set.
so... the answer would be 9 days after face to face meeting.
the girl i met was the exact same person as she described herself in our letters. the IO stated the concern that the time was so brief between meeting and marrying as one of the causes to invoke an interview along with 3rd marriage each and 11 years age difference.
that was not brought forth in the denial letter. they insisted that we did not share a language. we insited that we shared two language between us. we have found that it was easier and more fulfilling to communicate between ourselves, communication with immigration has proved protracted and difficult if not almost impossible.
we conducted our own interviews with each other. it was our love and our lives on the line that we were protecting. we committed instantly after meeting. immigration spent an hour to confirm their concerns and to develop a few more. it was not an interview, it was a lecture and an ambush.
we have past the point of interviewing each other, past the point of thinking about how we are both concerned with if our relationship is genuine and we are years now into enjoying our luck to find such compatible and perfect partners. we still have to write about it and get ready to defend ouselves against the personal bias of the IO and immigration lawyers. we have just celebrated our second anniversary together. ( that should read our second anniversary enduring this forced separation) we are delighted with our marriage and with our relationship.
i wish i could help your husband get over his feelings and his thoughts. as canadians we should feel free enough to follow or hearts in accord with the dictates of our personalities and predilections.
opps, this was supposed to post in the how long after you met face to face did you get married forum