Well I'll post the decision when I get it. We really are hoping for good news. The lawyer and the judge tested my Turkish and my husbands' English(even though I told them, he knows very little). I was nervous and barely understood the interpreters Turkish, and I know my Turkish is way better than the impression they got from the hearing. So frustrating! My husband and his family helped me so much with my Turkish, I really was so proud of how much I have learned. But the opposing lawyer made it seem like there was no way my husband and I could ever understand each other, and that's simply not true.
Then my husband had his own ideas about how he should answer the questions. eg. He discussed a little bit about his religion to me since we've been together. The lawyer asked me to explain what I know about it. I answered his questions but when my husband was asked to discuss it, he tells them, "I'm not a very religious person." I could've screamed I was so mad at him. But I also love him so much and I know he is not trying to hurt our chances he's just being honest. Then for some reason I said our anniversary was on a different day than what it was, and the lawyer asked him why I said that. Just all very stupid, and I was really flustered.
We just seem to turn everything into a gong show when we are attempting things. But anyone who knows us, here in Canada or there in Turkey knows we love each other very much and are very compatible. There is not a man on this earth that I get along better with and want to spend the rest of my life with, and I know he feels the same way.
Oh yea and another thing that happened. My husband told me he never had a relationship before me. So when I was questioned about him I told them that, but when he was questioned he said he had a girlfriend before me for 2 years. This after being repeatedly questioned("Come on you never had a girlfriend ever!!!) My husband guessed when he had this girlfriend, but later on when we were talking he confessed it was a girlfriend he had when he was only 15 years old. It was never serious and he probably should not have mentioned it at all.