How many conversations from facebook in a month for proof of communication

[naveedali]

Hello,

I want to know how many conversations from Facebook chat should I attach with my file as a proof of communication. Shall I copy the messages and paste them on word file or shall I take the screenshot from my computer screen. Thanks

 

[Mahamn]

Hello,

I want to know how many conversations from Facebook chat should I attach with my file as a proof of communication. Shall I copy the messages and paste them on word file or shall I take the screenshot from my computer screen. Thanks

I just took a lot of screen shots, about 4-5 from each month. That shows that they actually are facebook conversations. I hope that should be fine.

 

[naveedali]

I just took a lot of screen shots, about 4-5 from each month. That shows that they actually are facebook conversations. I hope that should be fine.

You took screenshots of a complete day in a month or 5 screenshots of 5 different dates in a month?

 

[dominokitty]

Don't over think it too much! They just want some proof that you have been in genuine contact with each other on a regular basis - on different dates over a period of months/years. Just give them enough that they can see the relationship is genuine. My husband and I included conversations from 2-3 days in the beginning and end of each month just to be safe - no issues so far.

If you don't have a lot of photos together, you might want to include more facebook conversations to compensate. We had photos from every visit we made to each other over 3 years as well as family events, so that was our biggest proof.

 

[naveedali]

Don't over think it too much! They just want some proof that you have been in genuine contact with each other on a regular basis - on different dates over a period of months/years. Just give them enough that they can see the relationship is genuine. My husband and I included conversations from 2-3 days in the beginning and end of each month just to be safe - no issues so far.

If you don't have a lot of photos together, you might want to include more facebook conversations to compensate. We had photos from every visit we made to each other over 3 years as well as family events, so that was our biggest proof.

shall i just take screenshots of the random messages or full convocation from hello to bye? also how should i scroll up to 2014 :/ we have over 400k messages :/

 

[yamgia]

shall i just take screenshots of the random messages or full convocation from hello to bye? also how should i scroll up to 2014 :/ we have over 400k messages :/

What I did to get to the top of the conversation without it being too much of a pain was following this trick: http://www.bloggertipsseotricks.com/2015/02/read-view-oldest-first-message-scrolling.html.
If that doesn't work (which it didn't for a while after facebook update), then I did step 1, installed a auto mouse clicker and let it just click away on "see older messages", while I was away from the computer till it reached the top.

Of course you could do a mix of screenshots and just the history in text (of history that you find hard to reach) if it's too much of a problem.

 

[naveedali]

What I did to get to the top of the conversation without it being too much of a pain was following this trick: http://www.bloggertipsseotricks.com/2015/02/read-view-oldest-first-message-scrolling.html.
If that doesn't work (which it didn't for a while after facebook update), then I did step 1, installed a auto mouse clicker and let it just click away on "see older messages", while I was away from the computer till it reached the top.

Of course you could do a mix of screenshots and just the history in text (of history that you find hard to reach) if it's too much of a problem.

yup already found it thanks but now the question is shall i take screenshots of a whole conversation or just few random messages from a day?

 

[yamgia]

yup already found it thanks but now the question is shall i take screenshots of a whole conversation or just few random messages from a day?

You're welcome!

And if you have long (maybe important) conversation, do like one whole conversation or if you have a shorter convo do like 2-3 parts? I wouldn't go over 2 pages a day tbh. If you send too many pages they will shred a lot of it, before it even reaches the person who is going to read it.

I did 4 screenshots on one page, sometimes 6 but I printed it on the back of the page.

 

[naveedali]

You're welcome!

And if you have long (maybe important) conversation, do like one whole conversation or if you have a shorter convo do like 2-3 parts? I wouldn't go over 2 pages a day tbh. If you send too many pages they will shred a lot of it, before it even reaches the person who is going to read it.

I did 4 screenshots on one page, sometimes 6 but I printed it on the back of the page.

My conversations are so long that it might take over 10 pages for one conversations in 2 hours :/ what im thinking is just take screen shots of random messages on 4 different dates in a month and put them on 1 page then for the next month 4 screenshots on different dates and put them on another page. 1 screenshot will contain 10 messages

 

[yamgia]

My conversations are so long that it might take over 10 pages for one conversations in 2 hours :/ what im thinking is just take screen shots of random messages on 4 different dates in a month and put them on 1 page then for the next month 4 screenshots on different dates and put them on another page. 1 screenshot will contain 10 messages

That's fine too yea, you only need to show you two communicate like a couple (don't only add the good, lovey dovey stuff) I only did more for important relationship changing conversations (i just choose certain parts of the convo.

 

[naveedali]

That's fine too yea, you only need to show you two communicate like a couple (don't only add the good, lovey dovey stuff) I only did more for important relationship changing conversations (i just choose certain parts of the convo.

90% of the conversation are in urdu the case worker won't even understand what we are talking about

 

[Radu1981]

90% of the conversation are in urdu the case worker won't even understand what we are talking about

No worries about that,they will understand everything from your conversation because they will use translator

 

[yamgia]

No worries about that,they will understand everything from your conversation because they will use translator

Oh really they use a translator? I didn't know this, I always thought you needed to translate it yourself haha, not that I needed it.

 

[MelissaJohn]

I took one screenshot of the beginning of each conversation, then I copied and pasted the rest to Wordpad because that used a lot of paper and ink to print screen a full conversation. Also, I took one conversation from every 3 or so months for the years we were together to show we continued talking the whole time and were in a relationship! I also added a note on Wordpad explaining to the officer why it's on WordPad.

Something like this:

The following pages include conversations between me and my spouse. We retrieved these messages from Facebook. I took screenshots of the beginning of each conversation to show you they are legitimate but copied and pasted the rest to Wordpad because of how long each conversation is. I believe it would be easier for you to read in the Wordpad format.

That way you already explained why you did it the way you did, and wont have to worry about a confused officer.

 

[naveedali]

I took one screenshot of the beginning of each conversation, then I copied and pasted the rest to Wordpad because that used a lot of paper and ink to print screen a full conversation. Also, I took one conversation from every 3 or so months for the years we were together to show we continued talking the whole time and were in a relationship! I also added a note on Wordpad explaining to the officer why it's on WordPad.

Something like this:

The following pages include conversations between me and my spouse. We retrieved these messages from Facebook. I took screenshots of the beginning of each conversation to show you they are legitimate but copied and pasted the rest to Wordpad because of how long each conversation is. I believe it would be easier for you to read in the Wordpad format.

That way you already explained why you did it the way you did, and wont have to worry about a confused officer.

how many total pages have you sent? and conversation of how many years?