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Girlfriend coming up to visit for a second time I have some q's

Serph

Full Member
Jun 13, 2011
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Hey guys,

I have a few questions because I'm extremely nervous about this second visit in the first one was kind of bumpy.

December 2009 my girlfriend of 3 years came up to visit for 6 months, she never previously visited another country, and just got her passport. In hindsight I can't believe they really did accept her last time since all she really had as a return flight ticket to show.

Though in this particular situation she was brought into an interview room and was questioned about her stay for a good 20-30min before they finally allowed her to stay and roughed her up a little emotionally. Though the boarder guard did challenge her on when she was going to leave by putting the day after her flight ticket stated as her return date, she did leave on time without any issues.

Once again my girlfriend is going to request for a 6 month stay, we have a return flight setup within that period and proof to show this to the boarder. Though I'm still a bit nervous of this whole thing since the last time I nearly thought she was being shipped right back home on a plane.

But anyway here's some of my questions:

Does it at all benefit her with the situation of this second visit? A part of me wants to say they did all the questioning and challenging the first time because she never had visited another country and suddenly wanted to stay for 6 months out of the blue. Are they able to see previous stays and if she left the country on time? If this is the case would this help her out? Also the fact that she hasn't constantly left and came back and her last visit was well over a year ago I hope has some benefit for us?


The one issue is I don't know what she can say regarding employment as she was laid off of her previous job about a month ago, she is looking into going back to school but that isn't quite arranged at the current time. I'm capable of easily supporting her on my pay and providing all the necessities during her stay. Are there any things we could write up, or provide to a boarder guard when she is interviewed, and if so what would they be?


I'll also say I know that it's all really dependent on who you are interviewed by, etc. But any information to make our chances better at least puts more ease on us.

Thanks for any responses.
 

ashokcan

Hero Member
Apr 28, 2011
469
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Serph said:
Hey guys,

I have a few questions because I'm extremely nervous about this second visit in the first one was kind of bumpy.

December 2009 my girlfriend of 3 years came up to visit for 6 months, she never previously visited another country, and just got her passport. In hindsight I can't believe they really did accept her last time since all she really had as a return flight ticket to show.

Though in this particular situation she was brought into an interview room and was questioned about her stay for a good 20-30min before they finally allowed her to stay and roughed her up a little emotionally. Though the boarder guard did challenge her on when she was going to leave by putting the day after her flight ticket stated as her return date, she did leave on time without any issues.

Once again my girlfriend is going to request for a 6 month stay, we have a return flight setup within that period and proof to show this to the boarder. Though I'm still a bit nervous of this whole thing since the last time I nearly thought she was being shipped right back home on a plane.

But anyway here's some of my questions:

Does it at all benefit her with the situation of this second visit? A part of me wants to say they did all the questioning and challenging the first time because she never had visited another country and suddenly wanted to stay for 6 months out of the blue. Are they able to see previous stays and if she left the country on time? If this is the case would this help her out? Also the fact that she hasn't constantly left and came back and her last visit was well over a year ago I hope has some benefit for us?


The one issue is I don't know what she can say regarding employment as she was laid off of her previous job about a month ago, she is looking into going back to school but that isn't quite arranged at the current time. I'm capable of easily supporting her on my pay and providing all the necessities during her stay. Are there any things we could write up, or provide to a boarder guard when she is interviewed, and if so what would they be?


I'll also say I know that it's all really dependent on who you are interviewed by, etc. But any information to make our chances better at least puts more ease on us.

Thanks for any responses.
So, your girl friend would like to visit you second time. Please let me know the nationality of your girl friend. 8)
 

Line.a

Champion Member
Nov 23, 2010
1,272
30
Denmark
Category........
Visa Office......
CPC-V
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
09-02-13
AOR Received.
27-02-13
Med's Request
08-02-14
Med's Done....
15-03-14
Interview........
Waived!
Passport Req..
Waived!
VISA ISSUED...
OWP: 25-02-14
LANDED..........
23-07-14
i was in the same spot as you i got questioned and what not on my 1st trip out to my bf who lives in Calgary! i a bit "shaken" by the experience being questioned out and it's normal to act like that i guess. i've been out on my 2nd trip and i was so nervous at the border line but you got to tell her to remember stay calm, say things truly as they will ask what date she'll return - cause i was so nervous i accidentally said the wrong date but quickly changed it and the border officer smiled n let me in without any problems! IF in any case though, tell her to get as much proof for "ties to her home country" such as a letter from where she works, a letter that proofs she's got somewhere to live and a letter with YOUR address on and phone number as well.. hope that gives meaning! that's what i'm doing each time and i'm due out for my 3rd trip on thursday.. trying to stay calm ;)
 

Line.a

Champion Member
Nov 23, 2010
1,272
30
Denmark
Category........
Visa Office......
CPC-V
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
09-02-13
AOR Received.
27-02-13
Med's Request
08-02-14
Med's Done....
15-03-14
Interview........
Waived!
Passport Req..
Waived!
VISA ISSUED...
OWP: 25-02-14
LANDED..........
23-07-14
and i'm sure she wouldn't have a problem getting in i should say.. but it's never a 100% even if you're a visa excempt. but i'm sure she'll get in without any issues :)