Feeling

[Yaya Marei]

It is not good. The process is killing me. People have things to do in their lives. We hold our lives. a year and some of us more.

They play with our feeling, yes they have to check but come on, for such a long time. I cannot believe it.
They do not think about days when we sleep apart, or when we have to creat a family.

This year my wife and I plan to have our first kid, but look. We are far away from each other , I miss my home with my wife in St.catharines.
I miss the day. We do things together, Do they understand us, or do they know it is our age and emotion here.

I do not know what to say, unless, it is too much..

 

[shiftpro]

Hang in there buddy, you're not the only one hurting. Yes it sucks and with the world changing so fast it is downright
scary. Putting our lives in the hands of someone else is not right but it is what it is.

 

[saifsmarty]

It is not good. The process is killing me. People have things to do in their lives. We hold our lives. a year and some of us more.

They play with our feeling, yes they have to check but come on, for such a long time. I cannot believe it.
They do not think about days when we sleep apart, or when we have to creat a family.

This year my wife and I plan to have our first kid, but look. We are far away from each other , I miss my home with my wife in St.catharines.
I miss the day. We do things together, Do they understand us, or do they know it is our age and emotion here.

I do not know what to say, unless, it is too much..


i really exactly understand can ubderstand u as im in the same situation "here im far from her for more than 3 and half years and we also have a son". when i left them for process my son was one and half years old and now hes going to be 6 in comin november.. is ur situation worst than me ????

 

[chess101]

Canada is just trying to protect it's citizens and prevent individuals from abusing the system. But sometimes it does go too far when people are waiting years That breaks my heart.

 

[turquoise]

I feel you. My husband's been in Hungary since 2009. On 2010, I picked up my son who was with him that time. That was the best decision I ever had & no matter how hard it will be working full-time & taking care of my son with no help, I am still happy my son is with me. Though it would be better when comes the time, we will be together as family. I miss my husband & my son often asks of his whereabouts. It's very hard. As per Rob's luv, this is not for the faint of heart. Notwithstanding, emotional stress but also financial stress.

Hopefully, in time...this waiting will be over....either good or bad result, at least we can plan & move on with our lives.