CutiePie92 said:
the truth has been spoken. there are thousands of couples that are separated for countless months.. you Americans need to realize how damn lucky you are
ANY visa EXEMPT applicant has the same ability to be in canada as a visitor during the application process. I even know of someone who required a visa who is here until she receives approval. ANY PERSON WHO IS IN CANADA AS A VISITOR CAN ESSENTIALLY BE HERE FOR THE WHOLE PROCESS, NOT JUST VISA EXEMPT APPLICANTS! kindly don't just assume it's us citizens have different rights here just because we share a border and
SOME can drive to be with our spouses. PLEASE!!!!!! There certainly is nothing EASY when it comes to this process. Yes, i've been able to be with my husband for PART of this, i am lucky because i can work remotely. However, i also can't stay here indefinitely until my approval comes in and i travel back and forth regularly, driving 8 hours each way. I've also had to remain in the states for 6 months of my first year of marriage. Yes, I am one of the "lucky" ones, and i'm sure someone else would give their left arm to be able to do the same. It doesn't mean the struggle isn't real. I can tell you for sure THE STRUGGLE IS REAL!!!! There are PLENTY of visa exempt applicants (including US citizens) who can NOT afford to travel to their spouses, and must remain separated for the process for financial and family reason. It doesn't matter where the applicant is from. IT IS A STRUGGLE TO GET THROUGH THIS PROCESS!!!!!
We each have our own stories, and it's not at all ok for one person to tell another person their story doesn't matter because they are from a country that doesn't require a visa. That's like me saying to someone who does require a visa "well hey, why aren't you trying to get a visa to come be with your spouse? it's not like it's impossible to do, people do it all the time! I even know someone here who was able to get one, so there's really no excuse for not trying. If you really wanted to be with them, you'd put in the effort." I of course would never say that, because I have class and I would never assume i know someone else's story or their capabilities better than they know it themselves.
It's not fair to make an assumption that we have it "easier" because our country shares a border. I'd like you to experience the border crossings some of us had. Have you been issued an exclusion order and not allowed to be in canada for a year, been interrigated for hours just to be let in because a border agent want to make it difficult for you, or have your travel limited because the border agent "feels" you are traveling too much and are actually living in canada, not visiting? probably not.
why are you singling out us citizens here? Paris and Sydney have super fast visa offices and applicants get approved quicker than US citizens. I don't see you complaining about them having it "easy".
This process certainly isn't easy for ANYONE... INCLUDING US CITIZENS. We all have our struggles, and thy are ALL real. Of course there are those with more devastating struggles than others, and it for sure is sad. However, everyone is equal here, no one is better than another person because of where they were born. Contrary to what your television broadcasters want you to believe, being a US citizen doesn't mean we have money flowing through our pockets. There are plenty of us who can't just pick up and do what we want to be with our spouses. I would go out on a limb and say none of us are part of the exclusive "1%". We are
ALL struggling to do the same thing here...
kindly stop with the assumptions and be grateful YOU have the means and opportunity to immigrate to canada, just like the rest of us are trying to do. It usually takes a lot to offend me, but your comment for sure offends and is completly ingorant of how this process works for those of us who are lucky enough to share a border with our spouses. and let's go back to first grade lessons here... IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY, DON'T SAY IT! Your comment has no value in this thread.