Wow, you're lucky for that!!! All we have are pictures, text messages, letters of support from family and friends... yeah. Two years of living together and that's it. No e-mails... I have some phone records. But nothing was ever in HIS name. HE has no bills, and I don't either. And on top of him having no status in the US where we lived this whole time, he was using his mother's maiden name (his 2nd middle name) rather than his last name. I might be in a hot mess myself, which is really frusterating, because we HAVE a genuine relationship!!!! Age is the least of my worries, ahah!