Ex husband emailing immigration

[taj p]

Hello All, Just need some help n advise with my case , my ex is writting to immigration n tell dem things I'm not sure what , I found out through the gcms notes, multiple issues brought up . And now we have interview I am very stressed n donno what to do.

 

[zardoz]

Hello All, Just need some help n advise with my case , my ex is writting to immigration n tell dem things I'm not sure what , I found out through the gcms notes, multiple issues brought up . And now we have interview I am very stressed n donno what to do.

All that you can do is to attend the interview and respond truthfully. Unless CIC contact you to ask questions beforehand, that is probably the first opportunity to find out if there are any problems. Are you being sponsored by a new husband or common-law partner?

 

[taj p]

All that you can do is to attend the interview and respond truthfully. Unless CIC contact you to ask questions beforehand, that is probably the first opportunity to find out if there are any problems. Are you being sponsored by a new husband or common-law partner?

I am sponsoring my husband from India, and I am very worried donno what my ex have written to dem. whn I went to his place last weekend for some signatures on some tax forms he said to my face he won't let my husband come to this country I went to the police n complained tht he threaten me like this. But there r many complications I think in our case now since I am not sure wot he wrote to immi

 

[SenoritaBella]

I think you did the right thing by reporting the threat to police. If you can get some type of proof from police to show that you filed a complaint, take it to the interview.
Try not to worry. CIC is going to investigate and if you have not done anything illegal, you have nothing to fear.

I am sponsoring my husband from India, and I am very worried donno what my ex have written to dem. whn I went to his place last weekend for some signatures on some tax forms he said to my face he won't let my husband come to this country I went to the police n complained tht he threaten me like this. But there r many complications I think in our case now since I am not sure wot he wrote to immi

 

[taj p]

I think you did the right thing by reporting the threat to police. If you can get some type of proof from police to show that you filed a complaint, take it to the interview.
Try not to worry. CIC is going to investigate and if you have not done anything illegal, you have nothing to fear.

No I haven't done anything illegal got divorced n married after 8 months ,I was seperated for more then 5 years n was staying in same house with him n his parents. But I am very nervous as to why they have interview for us coz we are genuine n we are in love for more then 2 years whn we got married n we have sent lots n lots of ecommunications n both our parents were present at the wedding n we also sent notarized letters from family n friends about our relation.

 

[Lobzang]

Hello All, Just need some help n advise with my case , my ex is writting to immigration n tell dem things I'm not sure what , I found out through the gcms notes, multiple issues brought up . And now we have interview I am very stressed n donno what to do.

That's terrible, Im so sorry to hear your going through this. Its good you went to the police. If you have good solid proof that wtv your ex is trying to claim is untrue then I wouldn't worry too much. Make it clear that this is simply an ex husbands jealousy trying to destroy your new marriage.
Best of luck xox

 

[keesio]

CIC is quite aware that there may be false claims from jilted lovers, ex-spouses, relatives with bad blood and so on. That is what the interview is for, to clear things up. Just relax and explain the situation.

 

[SenoritaBella]

Prepare well for the interview with your husband. Make sure your husband knows:
1. the reason for your divorce
2. what(if anything) your parents did to try and save your first marriage (this is common in Indian culture).
3. You were seperated for long but still living with your ex and his parents - make sure your husband knows about this, and the reason you did not move out, just in case the officer asks.
4. if your husband has never been married, they will likely ask him why he is marrying a divorcee since it's not common in your culture.
There is a lady in the appeals thread whose husband got a refusal. He was asked all these questions (except #3) at the interview. You may want to search for interview questions particularly for applicants going through the New Delhi visa office.

No I haven't done anything illegal got divorced n married after 8 months ,I was seperated for more then 5 years n was staying in same house with him n his parents. But I am very nervous as to why they have interview for us coz we are genuine n we are in love for more then 2 years whn we got married n we have sent lots n lots of ecommunications n both our parents were present at the wedding n we also sent notarized letters from family n friends about our relation.

 

[taj p]

Prepare well for the interview with your husband. Make sure your husband knows:
1. the reason for your divorce
2. what(if anything) your parents did to try and save your first marriage (this is common in Indian culture).
3. You were seperated for long but still living with your ex and his parents - make sure your husband knows about this, and the reason you did not move out, just in case the officer asks.
4. if your husband has never been married, they will likely ask him why he is marrying a divorcee since it's not common in your culture.
There is a lady in the appeals thread whose husband got a refusal. He was asked all these questions (except #3) at the interview. You may want to search for interview questions particularly for applicants going through the New Delhi visa office.

Thanks so much , yes he knows everything and he was with me in every step.

 

[taj p]

Prepare well for the interview with your husband. Make sure your husband knows:
1. the reason for your divorce
2. what(if anything) your parents did to try and save your first marriage (this is common in Indian culture).
3. You were seperated for long but still living with your ex and his parents - make sure your husband knows about this, and the reason you did not move out, just in case the officer asks.
4. if your husband has never been married, they will likely ask him why he is marrying a divorcee since it's not common in your culture.
There is a lady in the appeals thread whose husband got a refusal. He was asked all these questions (except #3) at the interview. You may want to search for interview questions particularly for applicants going through the New Delhi visa office.

Plaese guide me here
1) reason for divorce , ex was abusive torturing never took resonsibilties. Mentally ill and is very violent many a times the cops and even childrens aid got invoved . have all the records from past .
2)my parents were aware and did advise me to stay with him and though he wud he fine one day, 4 years stayed with him and all together 10 years in his parents house with him around did see any changes , i dint have hopes and i have a child from him, and i was worried the child life will be ruined if i saty and keep relation with that man.
3) seperated and living in same house coz i was trapped by my ex inlaws and they wanted me to pay his expenses and live wid them.infact they told me u can divorce him and live here without marrying anyone else , coz i was paying half of my income to dem.
4) my husband was never married but was engaged and he was not present whn the engagement took place his parents choice, he never saw the gal or spoke to her just agreed coz the parents were insisting for him to get married , it took palce in jun 2010 and we met online 22sep2011 and we fell in love and he told his parents about us in 2012,at first they dint agree coz this gal they chose was family gal and breaking tht will coz family issues but my husband told his parents he wudnt marry anyone and wud not return to india in that case , he was working aboard at tht time,finnaly they agreed, and i even met his parents when i went to india and they liked me .
or can we answer this by saying we love each other and she has all the quilties i am looking for in a wife.


plaese help

 

[keesio]

Plaese guide me here
1) reason for divorce , ex was abusive torturing never took resonsibilties. Mentally ill and is very violent many a times the cops and even childrens aid got invoved . have all the records from past .

It is really good that you have these records of police and aid groups involvement. Show these at the interview.

 

[gsize]

As stated earlier, CIC is well aware of these situations. Don't offer information unless asked for it. Think positive-----you will be fine !

 

[SenoritaBella]

@taj P, I'm sorry you went through such an ordeal. Hope things continue to work out well for you and your new husband. It sounds like you have everything covered, so just practice answering questions with your husband. For #4, I can't tell you what to do, but may be you can discuss it with your spouse and decide how to answer it.

Like others have said, think positive and try to relax. You will be fine.

Plaese guide me here
1) reason for divorce , ex was abusive torturing never took resonsibilties. Mentally ill and is very violent many a times the cops and even childrens aid got invoved . have all the records from past .
2)my parents were aware and did advise me to stay with him and though he wud he fine one day, 4 years stayed with him and all together 10 years in his parents house with him around did see any changes , i dint have hopes and i have a child from him, and i was worried the child life will be ruined if i saty and keep relation with that man.
3) seperated and living in same house coz i was trapped by my ex inlaws and they wanted me to pay his expenses and live wid them.infact they told me u can divorce him and live here without marrying anyone else , coz i was paying half of my income to dem.
4) my husband was never married but was engaged and he was not present whn the engagement took place his parents choice, he never saw the gal or spoke to her just agreed coz the parents were insisting for him to get married , it took palce in jun 2010 and we met online 22sep2011 and we fell in love and he told his parents about us in 2012,at first they dint agree coz this gal they chose was family gal and breaking tht will coz family issues but my husband told his parents he wudnt marry anyone and wud not return to india in that case , he was working aboard at tht time,finnaly they agreed, and i even met his parents when i went to india and they liked me .
or can we answer this by saying we love each other and she has all the quilties i am looking for in a wife.


plaese help

just practice with your husband and you can decide what's best