tgchi13
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- Nov 25, 2009
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- Category........
- Visa Office......
- NY via Buffalo
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- June 08
- File Transfer...
- 05 August 08
- Med's Request
- April 08
- Med's Done....
- June 08
- Interview........
- 12 Nov 09
- Passport Req..
- none
- VISA ISSUED...
- refused Nov 09
This isn't about sexual orientation in particular, but about conjugal applications in general. I don't think scylia was trying to make this about orientation rather making an effort to state that this IS a difficult - but not impossible - application category.frimousse said:sorry.. didn't want this thread to be about sexual orientation.. that really is not the issue i mentioned it mostly to describe the challenge of getting married (only a few countries allow it) . I thought that maybe that fact might make us eligible for conjugal parter sponsorship... whether hetero or other is ok! it's just great to get some feedback... it's encouraging to have some support! thank you =)
I suppose the only way to really find out would be to apply.. the worst they could say is no.. and then we could see about arranging a wedding some other way/place
maybe first see what happens with my partner's student visa.. keeping my fingers and toes crossed for that one! It would fix so many problems! we could marry in Canada first of all.. and the student visa could get renewed.. but I have my doubts about the visa getting accepted but we'll see! We have paid 100% of the tuition, return ticket to Honduras, proof of funds, acceptance letter from Québec, letter from his employer in Honduras that upon finishing his course he has a job waiting...
If you want my personal view, it is this: Apply as conjugal - if same sex marriage is not legal in Honduras than neither is a same sex common-law relationship safe. To me I believe that to be a legitimate barrier; unfortunately my opinion matters little. You have the option of moving there to be with him, or going to a third country to marry (still, not a bad thought and what I'd do from the perspective of where I am now - it also helps address the sincerity of your relationship). But you and you partner could do both: Apply as conjugal and marry in a third country; include in the application your wedding plans.
Good luck and best wishes for your relationship.