Toby,
It sounds like your wife received the exact same form letter as we did.
We did our best to follow the supplied list of documents but excluded documents that we had already submitted such as police reports. Basically we focused on supplementing what we had already provided and included anything that “might” be relevant.
When we arrived for the interview I took the 3 binders out of our bag and placed them on the chair so the IO could clearly see them.
The IO did not ask to see ANYTHING. He simply conducted the interview and at the conclusion confirmed the relationship as genuine and that my wife would have to redo her medicals to complete the process. I felt the process was very fair.
I suggest you prepare as much as possible and do whatever you feel is reasonable.
Living together, we have few photos; not really any reasons to take them, except during the few trips we have taken together. However, we have lots of evidence that we have been living together -- including a notarized letter from our landlords/friends who will state that they see us together often, in and out of our apartment, and that we are a couple. This --more than photos or bank statements -- should show that we are a genuine couple.
I trust you have never been told by Hong Kong that the police reports are out of date and that you must provide new ones. As such they cannot expect you to “know” that they have or have not expired. If they do in fact want new police reports I'm sure they will give you a fair opportunity to prepare them after the interview, but I suspect there is little or no chance they will ask for it.
Very reassuring . Thanks for this!!
The most important thing I believe you can do is attend the interview with your wife. You may not be a significant part of the actual interview but being there will ensure you can answer any relevant questions the IO might have for you. I am 100% sure that had I not been at my wife's interview she would not have passed it, because the conversation my wife and I had in front of the IO was clearly the tipping point in the interview.
Try not to get too worked up about the whole thing... The process is much fairer than you think and while it shouldn't be taken lightly, I don't think you need to worry about them trying to trip you up.
Congrats on the interview letter and good luck!
Thanks, guy. Much appreciated.
Cheers,
Doug and TangYan