3 Year Sponsor- money ??? Confused

[medellinguy]

I suggest some sort of counseling a lot of benefit plans offer it for free ... It's a serious situation if he does, and you owe the government they will garnish your wages, either solo counseling or couple counseling, it could get nasty, and it doesn't sound like you have a good attitude at all .... about it

sounds like you still have two years left which at 1000$ a month in welfare will cost you at least 48,000$ ... a down payment on a house

maybe I suck at maths, but $1000 x 24 months = 24 000, not 48 000...big difference!

 

[medellinguy]

and for all those three years I had a good life in Poland he treated me like *censored word* a lot. He has this weird mood swings ..........I thought I loved him and thought he would chance and sponsered him

big mistake big (or little) girl......next time, be sure to know what you're getting into when you plan projects this big that can be life changing......sponsoring someone is not like buying a blackberry that if you don't like after 3 weeks, you'll throw at the trashcan and buy an iphone. Stop crying, try to be nice to him, he will probably want to work instead of living on welfare especially if he is used to have money....don't be stupid (lol), he might be just manipulating you.....

 

[LindaB]

I dont care that is a lot of money- the thing is this. no matter what i have to provide for him? How do I know he looking for work? Should he not drop out of school? So what happens if his dad sends him 1,000K a month to help him does he still entitle for welfare...? I don't get this crap. I mean if I caught him in bed with another woman and killed the fool out would that still mean i would have to support for him

 

[LindaB]

Listen, he has money...lots of it. It's all under his dads name-- so he can just screw me by saying you better leave your new bf or try to works things out with me? Or I can screw you?

 

[kelKel]

Doesn't matter if his father has billions of dollars. You signed the agreement so unfortunately he has the power.

 

[LindaB]

So he can just do whatever he wants- he can just go there says he has no money, no job and screw me. So the only way I can get out of this mess is by trying to fall back in love with him and be unhappy and miserable and listen to his verbal abuses. ?? Amazing.

 

[LindaB]

Does he not have to demontrate that he is looking for work. ? Does he not have to show is willing? If he is trying to tell me he wants to screw me to get me back is that not a good reason to show the gov he is not trying?

 

[heatherusa]

So he can just do whatever he wants- he can just go there says he has no money, no job and screw me. So the only way I can get out of this mess is by trying to fall back in love with him and be unhappy and miserable and listen to his verbal abuses. ?? Amazing.

Sucks to be a grown up - doesnt it...

 

[LindaB]

I think this is stupid- I don't think you guys know what you are talking about. I think a lawyer will know better about this than you guys. Give me a break. So, I can be a verbal abusive relationship and still need to be with him. Does not make sense to me.

So if I fall out of love iwth him I need to support him?

Does not make sense.

I hate him for trying to screw me

 

[angelbrat]

So exits the drama queen....NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What a total load of bXXXsXXX

 

[heatherusa]

I think this is stupid- I don't think you guys know what you are talking about. I think a lawyer will know better about this than you guys. Give me a break. So, I can be a verbal abusive relationship and still need to be with him. Does not make sense to me.

So if I fall out of love iwth him I need to support him?

Does not make sense.

I hate him for trying to screw me

You made a legal obligation to support him... if you fall out of love with him... TOO *censored word*ING BAD... you made a legal obligation...


Take it to a lawyer and stop wasting our time...you can fall out of love.... but in the real world grown ups decisions have CONSEQUENCES...


You are either a troll or an idiot... either way, take a deep deep look at the situation... if you were grown up enough to sponsor him then face the consequences
..

 

[kelKel]

Well said Heather!

 

[LindaB]

I just think you guys are misinformed. I mean let's say this guys is a total ass...took me this long to figure this out and now he wants to screw me because he is hurt that I notice that he is an ass. Screw him and his feelings. I don't care about him crying over and over like a little wuzz... I don't love him and I hate him. He could go back home to his rich father. But he wants to screw my life here and my new relationship and new happiness. I'm going to make sure he does not win.

 

[LindaB]

So, a lawyer will know more and help me get this punk off my life. that is what you are saying.

 

[heatherusa]

I just think you guys are misinformed. I mean let's say this guys is a total ass...took me this long to figure this out and now he wants to screw me because he is hurt that I notice that he is an ass. Screw him and his feelings. I don't care about him crying over and over like a little wuzz... I don't love him and I hate him. He could go back home to his rich father. But he wants to screw my life here and my new relationship and new happiness. I'm going to make sure he does not win.

OK I officially declare this "TROLL"ville.