When I first joined the forum, this is the question I wanted to ask. I saw that others had asked it but the answer was either vague or never answered to my satisfaction.
I am writing this thread, not to ask the question myself but to answer the question for anyone who needs the answer in...
There doesn't seem to be too many here; I'd be interested in chatting and/or keeping track of other people on a similar timeline/dealing with the same hurdles as me, so I guess comment and say hi so we can network!