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canuck78

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The girl received the PPR in 3 months is what I meant. She applied in Oct and in Jan she received PPR. so maybe 3.5 months at max.
Still pretty much unheard of for that to happen to an Indian national. Perhaps this was before they made changes to the Inland/Outland system.
 

AutumnSkies

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Still pretty much unheard of for that to happen to an Indian national. Perhaps this was before they made changes to the Inland/Outland system.
Agree it seems unusual for an Indian national. My husband’s application was less than three months from date of AOR1 (early Aug and PPR in early Sept) but he’s from New Zealand, which makes more sense. This seems a bit off to me.
 

canuck78

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Agree it seems unusual for an Indian national. My husband’s application was less than three months from date of AOR1 (early Aug and PPR in early Sept) but he’s from New Zealand, which makes more sense. This seems a bit off to me.
You still have to count from when you mailed in your app until when you get COPR. Likely 5-6 months at that point.
 

AutumnSkies

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You still have to count from when you mailed in your app until when you get COPR. Likely 5-6 months at that point.
Would have been about three and a half months then. Mailed June 17th. COPR was Oct 4th. So 109 days.
 
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AutumnSkies

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Definitely not normal processing time. You got lucky.
Definitely. In our case I contributed it to sheer dumb luck. That’s why this particular case about India caught my eye. I could see it possibly happening to other cases like myself, (PAs from NZ, USA, Australia, UK to name a few who have very simple and straightforward applications) but seems highly unlikely for India. I don’t believe I’ve come across one yet.
 

canuck78

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Definitely. In our case I contributed it to sheer dumb luck. That’s why this particular case about India caught my eye. I could see it possibly happening to other cases like myself, (PAs from NZ, USA, Australia, UK to name a few who have very simple and straightforward applications) but seems highly unlikely for India. I don’t believe I’ve come across one yet.
Yes the 5 eyes application without any red flags and lots of dating history tend to be processed faster than others. In countries where there are many arranged marriages (So very little dating history), there is immigration fraud, where records may not be the best, etc. processing times may be longer. If an interview is required application takes even long. Just want people to have realistic expectations so they aren’t counting on moving so quickly.
 

akbarz

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I was also under the same impression ( me and my wife belong to different caste but not different religion ). We got court marriage done before I moved to Canada. Then after 6 months , we got Indian traditional wedding.
We submitted application with only court marriage photos --> side note : do have enough people in your court marriage so that you can genuinely show that there were people in your marriage ( even if it was a simple court one )
I later got to know from a FB group that a girl who is in India and her husband is PR here got just court marriage done in Sept, they submitted app in Oct, got PR approved in December itself , while we're still waiting for PR.

SO EVERY CASE IS DIFFERENT. DO NOT GO ACCORDING TO GENERALIZED STATEMENTS ON FORUM OR FB.

I would say do not go for common law as for that you need minimum 1 yr co habitation, etc etc.. which will add to your documents list. Just my view.

give additional supporting documents like : chats, photos, social media proof and a very good letter stating your reason. Get that letter reviewed with 2-3 people you know and ask them : do you think from our letter that our marriage seems genuine ? untill all of those 2-3 people don't get completely satisfied, keep fine tuning the letter and add details / shorten it up accordingly.

hope this helps !
I agree. If I knew how they question the wedding and the celebrations I would have had more people attend my civil marriage (however, I had a valid reason for not inviting people, not sure if CIC will find it valid enough but I can't change what happened in the weeks prior). I tried to convey it all in my form so that instead of waiting for them to give me a chance to explain, I could be as honest upfront so they did not doubt my story.
We are from the same religion but different sects so our marriage was not okay with family and community but we did anyways. And we had been in a Long distance relationship for 4 years and traveled together here and there between work and Uni.

Also, I know people who submitted in Dec 2019 and are receiving PPR and COPR in 2 months. You can check the tracker.

I also get put off reading about others' experiences and start doubting my application and the supports I provided. There isn't much you can do except try not to check every day and read all these posts
 

AutumnSkies

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Also, I know people who submitted in Dec 2019 and are receiving PPR and COPR in 2 months. You can check the tracker.

I also get put off reading about others' experiences and start doubting my application and the supports I provided. There isn't much you can do except try not to check every day and read all these posts
You have to consider where those people are from on the tracker and the complexity of their cases. The more knowledge and understanding there is of why some cases are so fast and others aren’t, the less stress and panic there is if yours is taking longer.

I always tell people who ask about my case that it is not the norm. Cases like mine are not the rule. They are the exception to the rule and should not be the end goal to strive for. Unfortunately everyone wants to focus on the fast cases when in reality they should be disregarded as unrealistic. You should never compare yourself to a few cases rather than the majority.
 
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akbarz

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You have to consider where those people are from on the tracker and the complexity of their cases. The more knowledge and understanding there is of why some cases are so fast and others aren’t, the less stress and panic there is if yours is taking longer.

I always tell people who ask about my case that it is not the norm. Cases like mine are not the rule. They are the exception to the rule and should not be the end goal to strive for. Unfortunately everyone wants to focus on the fast cases when in reality they should be disregarded as unrealistic. You should never compare yourself to a few cases rather than the majority.
Very true.

I think in my case I don't mind waiting the full 12 months they are projecting, I am more worried about them picking on stereotypes and cultural norms that don't fit our relationship or values. You can be living and born in Canada but they are judging you based on what your family background is, so that's where that nervousness comes in.

My advice is, to be honest. I had people tell me to not draw attention to the reasons for not having a large traditional wedding. But I chose to write a detailed explanation as it was quite obvious from the application.
 
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AutumnSkies

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Very true.

I think in my case I don't mind waiting the full 12 months they are projecting, I am more worried about them picking on stereotypes and cultural norms that don't fit our relationship or values. You can be living and born in Canada but they are judging you based on what your family background is, so that's where that nervousness comes in.

My advice is, to be honest. I had people tell me to not draw attention to the reasons for not having a large traditional wedding. But I chose to write a detailed explanation as it was quite obvious from the application.
I definitely feel for you there. It’s a shame that stereotypes and cultural norms can play a role, particularly when younger generations are starting to move away from strict traditions of the past. They aren’t necessarily going to do what their parents did or what society feels they should be doing.

It sounds like you’ve presented your case well and to the best of your ability so I wouldn’t stress too much. That’s the last thing you and your partner need! I wish you the best of luck and hope everything goes smoothly for you!